Our awesome life
I love to reflect on the year past. Am I on track as it pertains to my goals? What worked, what didn’t work, and what do I need to change or adjust? It never occurred to me that I may have been using the incorrect measuring stick.
Unbeknownst to me, our first Christmas together—revealing our love for each other—would be a tipping point. How awkward could that have been if the other didn’t feel the same? DOH! LOL!
So, I thought it would be a fun exercise to list some of the pros and cons to confirm my gut feelings.
PROS: I love you; you love me; you are beautiful; you are an amazing mother; you are very smart; you are a thinker; our core values align; we have an unwavering mutual respect; we support each other on every level; we travel awesomely together; you make me a better man; you ground me; you are my drinking buddy; we love spending time together; we love to share new experiences; we are a power couple; my weaknesses are your strengths; we want for nothing; we belong together.
CONS: We cannot have babies. We make others jealous.
Looks like we will need to learn how to live with the cons. :)
Cheers to our AMAZING life!
I love you with all my “heart and soul,” my Kandi Cain.











